Online Dating Safety Tips

Online dating is fast becoming the most popular way to meet new people, because it's so easy and convenient. However it's a good idea to maintain a realistic sense of caution when arranging dates with people you don't know. In the 'real world' it is very common to be introduced to people in a non-dating context through family, friends or work. Online dating tends to be different, in that it's unlikely you really know the person before you go on a date with them.

Don't put too much personal information in your profile.

While it's important that your profile page gives a good impression of you, don't post personal information like your full name, phone number or email address. You should keep control over when prospective dates get this information.

Use an email address which doesn't identify you personally.

A free Gmail or Hotmail address is a good idea. Don't use your work address, especially if it's something like firstname.lastname@company.com which not only gives them your full name, but also your place of work, and makes it relatively easy to find out more about you. It also saves potential embarrassment if a colleague picks up your emails while you're away on holiday or off sick.

Only give them your mobile phone number

Don't give out your home phone number until you're sure that you want to see your date again. It's too easy to find an address from a home phone number.

Arrange to meet in a public place for your first date

Arrange to meet in public, and stay in public for the duration of your first date. If you're going out to dinner, meet at the restaurant. Don't accept your date's offer to pick you up from home. It's probably a good idea to go home separately at the end of the date as well, unless you're absolutely sure you want to continue the relationship.

Don't leave your possessions or your drink unattended

If you leave your purse or mobile phone unattended they could get stolen, or a drink could be spiked. It's best to keep an eye on your drink and your possessions on the first date. This should pretty much be common sense.

Don't get too drunk

Drink alcohol in moderation or not at all. Don't allow yourself to get so drunk that your judgement is impaired and you may end up doing something you're not comfortable with.

Let someone know where you're going

Tell a friend where you're going, and stick to it. Don't agree to go somewhere else without letting them know. If you're date actually cares about you they won't mind.

While these precautions may seem a bit on the paranoid side they are important. The vast majority of dates go smoothly and are perfectly safe, but it's better to be safe than sorry.